April 30, 2009 at 10:28 pm (Pictures) (, )


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A Heartbreaking Loss…

April 30, 2009 at 10:25 pm (Day to Day) (, , , , , , )

Last night was the trophy winning game breaker for my son’s basketball team. After a crushing 2-point loss last week, they were fired up and ready to win.

They came on strong and played well, leading the game for the first 3 quarters. The other team couldn’t catch up no matter what they did. Unfortunately, our team just couldn’t hold onto the lead. The other team came back  bigger and bolder and made their moves.

Again, just like last week, it came down to the final 15 seconds. No score. Foul to us. 4 seconds on the clock—only 1 point behind. We put it in bounds and took the shot. Missed. Buzzer sound. The game was over.

Chaos from the other side—they all ran out and cheered. Our team was devastated, standing there. Even the cheerleaders were upset.

As a parent, you try and remember back to when you were that age. Think about the first time you lost something that you really, really wanted to win; more than anything else in your life. They were trying to win for themselves, the coaches, the principal, their teachers and the school. It was overwhelming.

But only after. They played their butts off and they looked good. It was a real team, with real rules and real consequences. They ran and sweat and got pushed down and got right back up. Not one of them quit or played any less than great.  They wanted that trophy bad. The other school has it though. For now. There’s always next year.

Not to get too mushy-gush, my kids hate it, but…

This is fourth and fifth grade, right on the edge of a whole new experience about to come. They are moving into the teens, and every hormone-laden, awkward, moody, mixed-up emotional, physical change that all those years are going to bring down on them. This was good practice because most of the team is moving into the junior high and it is going to be much harder. Disappointment doesn’t get any easier to take the older you get.  But I think we’ll save that lesson for another time. Watching from the stands and looking down onto the floor, you can see clearly, they’re still just kids. Let them have this last year. And leave it to the fourth graders to get that trophy back.

Despite the outcome, I am so proud of my son. I swear I felt every emotion that team was going through. It’s exciting for me to see him be so excited about anything. To know how hard they worked in practice, running and jumping and sweating and crying until they wanted to give up but didn’t. It was awesome.

When I was in school I never went to events or games, so I never understood. I am not missing my opportunity this time. My kids love sports and school and all the events that go along with it. And I plan on being right there, encouraging, pushing, and driving them on, until they can stand on their own and do it for themselves.

Last night was crummy, but today is better. There’s another lesson for you. Time heals all wounds. What a cliché, but what the hell.

Here’s another: Things always look better in the morning. Life just keeps moving despite the things that happen to you personally. No one gets a day off.

Things do look better today, although it’s still raining. That’s kind of depressing. Pretty soon that will be over too and it will be just one, long, hot, summer day, after another and we’ll be praying for rain.

So for my boy and his team, and his first, non-romantic heartbreak, the Music List will be all about…Heartbreak. What else?

Grab a tissue and settle in. The “Heartbreakers” Music List. Just below.

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The Heartbreakers

April 30, 2009 at 10:22 pm (Music Lists) (, , , , , )

1. It’s A Heartache / Bonnie Tyler

2. Heartbreaker / Pat Benatar

3. Bringin’ On The Heartbreak / Def Leppard

4. Heartbreaker / Dolly Parton

5. Heartbreak Hotel / Elvis Presley

6. Heartbreaker / Led Zeppelin

7. Heartache Tonight / The Eagles

8. The Heartache Can Wait / Brandi Carlile

9. Heartache For Everyone / Indigo Girls

10. Can’t Stand The Heartache / Skid Row

11. 6th Avenue Heartache / The Wallflowers

12. Heartaches Of A Fool / Willie Nelson

13. Un-Break My Heart / Toni Braxton

14. It Makes My Heart Break / Your Vegas

15. Edge Of A Broken Heart / Vixen

16. Stop Draggin’ My Heart Around / Stevie Nicks (feat. Tom Petty)

17. The Worst Part Of A Broken Heart / Shannon McNally

18. Heartbroke / Ricky Skaggs

19. Heal Me, I’m Heartsick / No Vacancy

20. Broken Heart / Motion City Soundtrack

21. Broken Hearts, Torn Up Letters & The Story Of A Lonely Girl / Lostprophets

22. What Becomes Of The Broken Hearted / Jimmy Ruffin

23. Yr Mangled Heart / The Gossip

24. Broken Hearts Parade / Good Charlotte

25. Broken Hearted / Eighteen Visions

26. Broken Hearted Me / Anne Murray

27. If You Gotta Break Another Heart / Albert Hammond

28. Achy Breaky Heart / Billy Ray Cyrus

29. Don’t Go Breaking My Heart / Elton John & Kiki Dee

30. Piece Of My Heart / Janis Joplin

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April 30, 2009 at 1:36 pm (Pictures) (, , )


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Day Quote

April 30, 2009 at 1:23 pm (Day Quote) (, , )

You must always have great, secret, big, fat hopes for yourself in love and life. The bigger, the better.

—Gloria Vanderbilt

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Cool Word of the Day!

April 30, 2009 at 1:13 pm (Cool Words) (, , , , )

Elementary (adjective)

Definition:  Fundamental, essential, or irreducible

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April 30, 2009 at 1:00 pm (Pictures) (, )


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Day Quote

April 29, 2009 at 4:22 pm (Day Quote, Movies) (, , , , )

If it has to be only one:

Because I used to, and people like to do what they used to do...

...after they've stopped being able to do it.

---Paul Newman as Brick, in Cat On A Hot Tin Roof

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Cat On A Hot Tin Roof / DVD Cover

April 29, 2009 at 4:20 pm (Movies, Pictures) (, , , , , )

This is what you are looking for at the video store!
(The picture is from Wikipedia–also nice to use as a source.)

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Day Quotes / Cat On A Hot Tin Roof / Special Edition

April 29, 2009 at 4:16 pm (Day Quote, Movies) (, , , , , , , , , , )

Today it is all about Cat On A Hot Tin Roof. The movie. (Based on the play by Tennessee Williams) I just finished watching it again. That makes it my 3rd time. It just keeps getting better and better. The acting is phenomenal, the script, the dialogue…Liz Taylor and Paul Newman.

The old movies, I am quickly discovering, are countless times riskier and more scandalous than anything they make today. It is evident, in the restraint that they had to show visually, and the care that they had to use, choosing every single word to make every sentence mean more than what is merely said.

So I dug out some of my favorite parts/lines/sections of the movie and put them here. They are in dialogue form. In the sake of saving myself typing time, use this guide for all of the below:

Paul Newman is Brick

Elizabeth Taylor is Maggie the Cat

Burl Ives is Big Daddy

I hope you enjoy this little stroll through cinema past with me. And if you haven’t seen the movie yet…go get it right now! You will not be disappointed.

This first one is from my favorite part of the movie. If you didn’t think that Liz and Paul  had chemistry or are two of the “greats”, you will after watching this. Those expressions. Those EYES…ooh la la…

Little Girl: What's Uncle Brick doing on the floor?

Brick: I tried to kill your Aunt Maggie...

...but I failed...

...and I fell. Little girl, would you hand me my crutch, please?

Little Girl: What were you jumping high hurdles for?

Brick: Because I used to, and people like to do what they used to do...

...after they've stopped being able to do it.

Maggie: That's right. And that's your answer.

Now go away.

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